A lot of girls really feel the pressure of getting into a romantic relationship. We know of a lot of girls who try to bring out the best of them all the time. We've seen them multitask careers and keeping pretty on the side, plus handle a social network to keep them always 'in the know'. Despite these efforts, a lot of women also defeat their previous 'techniques' because they're always feeling sorry about themselves. Now here's where the warning flags come a-fluttering.

When you are always feeling sorry for yourself, you will feel bad and then this will affect your self-esteem. See, despite your efforts, you are single. And you make this worse by broadcasting to the world how sorry you are. Know what that makes you? A big loser. Yes a big, shiny L on your forehead, like a custom table banner.

So everytime you feel down in the dumps, do something that makes you happy. Just go out there and enjoy yourself. Take that class you've been wanting to for a long time, read a good book and cry, laugh or marvel in spite of yourself, watch a great movie despite being alone, and treat yourself to an extra large sundae just because. Surround yourself with positive energy and quit being sorry you're single, 'cause if you continue doing so, then that might just be the reason why you are.

Say hello to a more beautiful and an emotionally healthier you! And a new lover, perhaps? Who knows!