When you child starts to pout and starts putting weight onto his steps, when he refuses to talk to you, when he shuts himself out and wears a frown all the time, he might be turning into....a monster. Just kidding. He might be turning into a brat! Danger flags waving already! There has never been a better time to redirect the disciplining route.

First, approach your child in a mild, gentle and loving way. No matter how angry he is, you will eventually break through the fortress by showing him that there is a nicer way to deal with things. Do not use force immediately. If you are just as mad as he is, be the more mature one and just deal with him lovingly.

Talk to him starting with retelling the story. Tell him that he is being difficult and this is upsetting you. Talk to him about bad behavior and don't rush into punishment. Explain, calmly, the importance of discipline. Tell him how it will help when he grows old. Kids like the idea that they can be entrusted like grown ups so this part is crucial.

Lastly, explain the beauty of recognizing a mistake and apologizing. Don't fret if the child takes time to say sorry. Even if it's as small as forgetting to say 'good morning' to the visitors or smearing your custom table banner with watercolor, your child may not be ready to accept he's mistaken so just give him time.

Finish off with an affectionate gesture, like a hug, a kiss and an 'I love you'.